Singleness can be managed and when is managed appropriately is a gift.

To be single means you are a whole person not a fraction, If you dont understand this you will think you need someone to complete you. You have to understand you are a whole person looking for another whole person to complement you,not to compete with you. 

The freedom you have when you are single is amazing.

-To seek God

-To pray

-Freedom to plan the future for yourself

-Freedom to go back to school

So many seek the right person, rather than work being the right person.

Being single gives you peace,time to think and reflect on yourself. And discover amazing things about yourself that u did not have time for when u were not single. 

Most single dont live they wait, while there is a lot of things you can do out there, but they just come home and wait and wait. Then when nothing happens they get frustrated. Seek a whole life as a single person than waiting.

You have to love yourself before you try to love anyone else. YOU COME FIRST.




Some men don’t get it. First you would love this man with your whole heart, you would even disown your own family for this man.

Do everything for him, you will even want to give him your whole cheque ,whatever he wants, tell you he doesnt like make up so u do everything to be natural when around him, even when you haven’t even tried or haven’t had anul sex you would want to have anul sex with him to make him happy, suck his dick even though you haven’t done it before. But still you would do it to please his ass. Dropping all your side potential babes for this mother fucker because your heart tells you he is the right one but your inner voice tells you he aint but still we listen to our heart not inner voice.

You will travel long distances for this man, either walking,driving or flying to where ever this man is at just to see him and please him.Cook for this man and everything else you might fucking think of. 

 AND THEN THIS MF….  Coming up after you like and comment. 

TEDDY BEAR GIVEAWAY WOOHOOO (Do you know a newly diagnosed cancer patient Child or are you caring for a Kid who is?)


Do you know a newly diagnosed cancer patient Child or are you caring for a Kid who is?

If you answered yes to any or all of these questions, please keep reading and enter my giveaway 

If you would like a chance to win a free Teddy Bear, Make a short Instagram video and tell us why you would love a teddy bear & tag us @ruralafricanshop. The size of the teddie bear can be seen on our YOUTUBE CHANNEL, On Friday,October 30, 2015 ur name will be included in the drawing. If you’d like another chance to win, also leave a comment on my RuralAfrican Shop Facebook page. The winner will be announced shortly thereafter.

Thank you for reading and good luck to those who enter!

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Thank you The Shields for the nomination

The  Sisterhood of the World Blog Award is about connecting with other female bloggers and getting the blogger community together. The rules are:

1. Thank and link the blogger who nominated you.
2. Answer the questions the nomination has provided.
3. Nominate ten other bloggers
4. Create ten questions for your nominees and notify them of their nomination.


I started blogging because of my business, I wanted to take it out there, I noticed that google tend to pick up SEO for blogs more than an online store. Blogging is also a tool i use for marketing and connecting with my fans and customers.

How do you motivate yourself to keep your blog up?

When i take new photos, change my hair styles which changes a lot LOL, New products that I want to sell quick, last but not least holidays or memorable days to blog about.

Where do you hope to see yourself in the future?

With blogging I hope better than I am doing now, which is being lazy to blog.

Who inspires you?

Every woman or man who has a dream and strive to see it become reality. Every person who have been down but found a way to stand.

What is your Blog highlight?

My business

What is your favorite getaway destination?

The Okavango Delta in Botswana fun fact the village where i was born is the getaway to this awesome delta, and Victoria Falls in Zimbabwe

What color best describes you?


Red- Red is the single most dynamic and passionate color, which symbolizes love, rage and courage. Demanding attention, red has great emotional impact. People like me who love red we are impulsive, and we strive for success. We have this desire to experience the fullness of living leads to constant activity.

To me Red is Aries which is my star sign by the way 😉

What is your favorite food?

I have a lots of favorite food,You see food loves me and  i love food and i love to eat. So i will list my top 5 LOL  Phaleche (Pap), morogo wa dinawa and beef stew, Actually any traditional dish from Botswana is my favorite, Anything with chicken,rice, mushroom and cheese. Lord i love pizza too. Like i said i love food so am going to leave it here LOL

What do you blog about?

Mostly about my business, DIY projects or my new video on YouTube, By the way I have a new video up. Take few minutes to watch it and thank you for reading and visiting the blog.


  1. Your favorite book and why?
  2. If you were an animated character who would you be?
  3. Your all-time favorite band?
  4. If you could have your dream Job right now what would it be?
  5. If you could be any age for a week what age would you be?
  6. What word best describes you?
  7. Have you ever danced in the rain? How did it feel?
  8. If you had a brainwashing machine who would you use it on?
  9. Safari or a holiday by the sea?
  10. What phrase best describes you?

Making a flared, box pleated skirt


Tamaki Is A Girl

Though this skirt needs some finishing off, it’s done enough that I can show you my process. It was a little tricky to figure out how to make it given that it needed to flare out at the same angle as my petticoats. With a normal pleated skirt you can just fold a long rectangle and then join the ends, or cut out lots of rectangles, but I had to cut out trapeziums so the skirt would be wider at the bottom than the top.

Something that helped me figure out how to make this was a brief tutorial here. It showed in paper how the pieces fit, so I also made a small paper version of a couple of panels to figure out the shape.

Firstly, this is the fabric I found. It’s very thick and heavy, and a little bit shiny, so it looks just like the…

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"Wearing a hat is like having a baby; everyone stops to coo and talk about it." Louise Green


Saying you don't look good in a hat is like saying you don't look good in shoes!


We just know inside that we're queens. And these are the crowns we wear." Felicia McMillan


If a woman rebels against high heeled shoes, she should take care to do it in a very smart hat." George Bernard Shaw


You can flirt with a fan in your hand. You can flirt holding a cigarette, too. But a woman can really flirt with a hat.

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DIY Faux Locs, How to Styles & Renew old Faux Locs


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Aries Strength Keywords:

– Independent
– Generous
– Optimistic
– Enthusiastic
– Courageous

Aries Weakness Keywords:

– Moody
– Short tempered
– Self-involved
– Impulsive
– Impatient

Aries and Independence:

Aries personalities are independent. Being the first of the zodiac signs, they venture out and are go-getters, often leading the way. Their upbeat and magnetic personality often entices others to follow their lead because Aries personalities bring excitement into others lives.

Aries and Friendship:

Aries are good friends, they always look out for their friends with caring and generosity and will protect them should the need arise and encourage them with their natural optimism. If confronted, Aries can turn to be quite childish, they will fight back with their agressive nature and are known to have temper tantrums should they not get their way.

Aries and Business:

Aries are activists. If a business idea comes their way, they tend to plunge right in. Aries are more then willing to take a gamble and follow their dreams and goals. However, if success is not immediate, they tend to lose interest and give up easily. Aries are notorious for not finishing what they have begun. This is due to the low tolerance for boredom and lack of patience. If the excitement is gone from their business idea, they go off and search for it elsewhere.

Aries Temperament:

Independence is key to Aries astrology, they do not like to take orders from others and enjoy getting their way. They can get childish or moody should they be given orders that they do not like. Aries easily take offense to comments made. Aries are self-involved and can be self-centered, if they do not pay attention to the feelings of others, Aries can easily become spoiled and resented by others. In order to get their way, Aries will tell a lie if it seems advantageous to do so. They are however, not very good liars and other people can usually see through them.

Aries Deep Inside:

Underneath the strong, independent surface may lie insecurity. This is due to the intense drive to succeed and Aries put too much pressure on themselves, thus resulting in self-doubt however, the natural optimism and enthusiasm overtakes this and the underlying insecurity may never be known to others.

Aries in a Nutshell:

Aries is the first of the zodiac signs. Aries is the sign of the self, people born under this sign strongly project their personalities onto others and can be very self-oriented. Aries tend to venture out into the world and leave impressions on others that they are exciting, vibrant and talkative. Aries tend to live adventurous lives and like to be the center of attention, but rightly so since they are natural, confident leaders. Aries are enthusiastic about their goals and enjoy the thrill of the hunt, “wanting is always better then getting” is a good way to sum it up. Aries are very impulsive and usually do not think before they act – or speak. Too often Aries will say whatever pops into their head and usually end up regretting it later!

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