DIY Faux Locs, How to Styles & Renew old Faux Locs

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Sorry it’s been a hot minute not blogging had a lot going. But I am back in One peace. Please subscribe to my youtube channel, i will be posting DIY craft videos from hair to Home decorations.

HOW TO INSTALL FAUX LOCS

HOW TO RENEW & STYLE FAUX LOCS

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xoxoxo

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AFRICAN MUSIC AND AMERICAN MUSIC RESPECT TOWARDS WOMAN

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I always wondered why in America, will a woman in her right senses smile and take it as a compliment when his man or boyfriend whichever it is, calls her a bitch or a whore. I have seen this happen quiet a lot.

I also wondered why these woman will go around even boosting about being his bitch, not his bitch in fact his bad bitch, how she is a bad bitch and what not.

I also wondered why African females call themselves black queen, beautiful woman, all this beautiful names a woman will call her self in respect of her status in the community. Why an African woman will slap the hell out of a man who will call her a bitch, African woman i mean those who are educated but still not corrupted by the western lives or the so called “3rd world countries”. There is no how the word bitch can be used in a good way. Because they will say “don’t take this wrong you are a bad bitch in a good way”.

Oh really like wtf do u mean.

Well now i see this trend in Africa, you know Africans we like copying whatever Americans are doing, i think we think that is civilization. Our music is so changed. We call ourselves the N word, do u even know what it means.

It is not civilization to be calling women whores, bitches or cursing to make a song. This is the reason why i don’t listen to rap music.

Enjoy your Friday, i am about to go listen to rap music and sip some hot tea.

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NYE PARTY & DIY DRESS: HAPPY NEW YEAR

 

 

 

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i had fun

i love my legs damn i have beautiful legs

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yep goin down bab

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i did have a great time on NYE,hope you all did, i don’t plan to have new year resolutions this year as i don’t always get to follow them. 2014 is going to be a great year.

NOW I WONDER…MMHHHH

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After I took these photos, I then sat my beautiful lovely behind down and I looked at these photos very closely and I said to my self.

1.why did I stop wearing my natural crown?
2. What inspired me to start wearing wigs and all this fake hair?
3. What was the main reasons that I choose that I look better in wigs than my own natural hair?
4. ALL THESE WIGS ARE FREAKING EXPENSIVE…

Well I never even got to answer this questions my self, they seem so hard to answer. I remember the first time I had a wig sewed in my head by a zimbabwean woman in maun by shoprite,she took me behind the shops we found a tree, where we found other zimbabwean women plaiting other women, it was painful sewing it in, and because it was my first time i was so anxious and curious. The more she tried to make the wig to look natural the more it hurt. Anyway they say no gain without pain.It took almost 3 to 4 hours, it was so uncomfortable to sleep on the first day and the care taking of these hairs extensions or wigs is just too much. I remember I had to wrap my hesd when going to sleep, comb it in a certain way to make me look good, and the most annoying thing is the scalp itching part and you can’t really reach it because there is no space to reach as it is a sewn in.

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Now back to the photo, I am really loving my natural look and I think, I am going to be wearing this uniquely God given crown for a while because I totally look amazingly beautiful,  what do you, anyway it doesn’t matter because I know how I look BEAUTIFUL AFRICAN MOTSWANA WOMAN.

I love wigs and extensions, maybe I will one day get to it again, but not soon. I am not discouraging anyone from any hairstyles you want but again I always here women saying, they don’t look good with their natural hair, but again if you don’t give your natural crown a chance, how will you know. I used to be like all this women untill I lived according to me but to not to what people will think or judge of me.

😉 😉 😉

SHOES LOVER QUOTES

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I never wear flats. My shoes are so high that sometimes when I step out of them, people look around in confusion and ask, “Where’d she go?” and I have to say, “I’m down here.
Marian Keyes

Sometimes comfort doesn’t matter. When a shoe is freakin’ fabulous, it may be worth a subsequent day of misery. Soak in Epsom salts and take comfort in the fact that you’re better than everyone else.
Clinton Kelly

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CHINESE PROVERBS

Yep you can tell I had some chinese food today. Thank you papi for capturing my moments.

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“Most folks are about as happy as they makeup their minds to be” Chinese Proverb

“Always a valley before a hill” Chinese Proverb

Have a good evening.♥♥♥♥

THANKSGIVING OUTFIT OF THE NIGHT

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I am happy to share with you this beautiful lady here, adorned Ruralafrican accessories which were clutch bag, earrings, necklace, bangle and shoes which can be found HERE.  She looked so beautiful and happy.
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Doesn’t she look adorable? Happy and beautiful. Her dress was a killer too which was also custom made by another talented lady.

I hope you all had a blast yesterday on Thanksgiving.
♥♥♥♥ thank you for reading my blog

DREAMS ARE JUST NOT DREAMS

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I was sleeping facing up and my arms across over my head and the devil was pulling me wanting me to go with him and I kept praying and praying it was a really big fight it even seemed real. I will pray and he will stop then when I stop he pulls me more times harder than he did at first it was so scary he was flipping me over trying his best to take me to his side I couldn’t I kept shouting burn in Jesus name and when he left my hand I would throw sand at him I couldn’t see his face nor body but the force that pulled me was too big and scary. The Lord saved me and this is not the first time.just saying his name and praying kept me from being pulled to hell. I am so thankful. I woke up with my arms a lil swollen  across my head and i was still praying.

This is just to remind you that the Lord is there, And I believe that but what surprises me is I never pray  when I go to bed and i haven’t been to church for almost a year now, but once the devil starts to attack me the only name that comes from my mouth is Jesus,I believe he saved me and he has a greater power than the devil.

Friends I have told, thinks it was just a dream but that’s not what my mind is telling me. That dream was real and I don’t dream every day, I dont know what it means but what I know is I am saved. I got saved and thank you Jesus and its not the first time you did save me but the third time now. 🙂

QUOTE OF THE DAY: CULTURE 20/11/2013

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“It should now be our intention to try to retrieve what we can of our past. We should write our own history books to prove that we did have a past, and that it was a past that was just as worth writing and learning about as any other. We must do this for the simple reason that a nation without a past is a lost nation, and a people without a past is a people without a soul.” Sir Seretse Khama

“A people without the knowledge of their past history, origin and culture is like a tree without roots.” Marcus Garvey

“A nation’s culture resides in the hearts and in the soul of its people.” Mahatma Gandhi

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“Embrace your culture, preserve it, be proud and show it off in the world. We were given different cultures in the world for a reason, I am proud of my culture and will show it off everywhere and anywhere in the world. I am a proud Motswana girl from Maun ” Tebogo Regasegile

LET THAT MAN OR WOMAN LOOSE, LET THEM GO

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WHEN A MAN/WOMAN  WANTS TO WALK AWAY FROM YOU,LET HIM/HER WALK. DON’T TRY TO TALK ANOTHER PERSON FROM STAYING WITH YOU, LOVING YOU, CALLING YOU, CARING ABOUT YOU, SEEING YOU, STAYING ATTACHED TO YOU. WHEN PEOPLE CAN WALK AWAY FROM YOU LET THEM WALK, LET THAT MAN/WOMAN GO. IT DOESN’T MATTER HOW WONDERFUL THEY WERE, IT DOESNT MATTER HOW ATTRACTED YOU ARE TO THEM, IT DOESNT MATTER IF THEY GAVE YOU GOOD SEX, IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT THEY DID FOR YOU BECAUSE WHEN THEY ALREADY MADE THEIR MIND TO LEAVE YOU NOTHING WILL STOP THEM. WHEN HE/SHE WANTS TO LEAVE YOU LET HIM/HER GO, OPEN THE DOOR WITH A SMILE AND LET THEM GO, BECAUSE YOUR DESTINY IS NOT TIED TO THE PERSON WHO LEFT. PEOPLE LEAVE YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT JOINED TO YOU. IT DOESN’T MEAN THAT, HE IS A BAD BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND BECAUSE THEY ARE LEAVING YOU,IT JUST MEANS THAT THEIR PART IN THE STORY IS OVER, AND YOU GOT TO KNOW WHEN PEOPLE’S PART IS OVER IN YOUR STORY SO THAT YOU DONT KEEP ON TRYING TO RAISE THE DEAD. YOU JUST GOT TO KNOW WHEN ITS OVER.

NOTHING JUST HAPPENS, IF HE/SHE WALKS AWAY ITS NO ACCIDENT, IF U TRY TO WORK THINGS OUT AND ITS NOT WORKING, TAKE IT AS A WILL OF GOD, BELIEVE IN GOODBYES. ITS NOT LIKE YOU HATEFUL. STOP BEGGING HIM TO STAY WHEN HE DOESNT WANT TO. AS PAINFUL AND HARD AS IT MAY BE LET HIM OR HER WALK.

AT THIS STAGE AND AGE THERE IS NO REASON WHY THINGS HAPPENS AND WHY THINGS JUST HAPPENS.

YOUR DESTINY IS NOT TIED TO HIM/HER. NO MATTER THE HEART BREAK,THE PAIN, YOU DONT HAVE TO WORRY, JOY COMES IN THE MORNING AND TROUBLES THEY DONT LAST ALWAYS.BECAUSE THERE IS A FRIEND IN JESUS, WHO WILL WIPE THOSE TEARS AWAY. JUST KNOW THAT YOUR LIFE IS IN HIS HANDS. WITH JESUS YOU CAN OVER COME ANY PAIN, NO MATTER WHAT MAY COME YOUR WAY. JUST KNOW YOU CAN MAKE IT. AND I WILL MAKE IT TOO. 😉

GOOD NIGHT FELLOWS, BYE PETER. COMMENT BELOW ON HOW YOU DEAL WITH BREAKUPS

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